Never Have I Ever Questions for Couples
Did they google you before your first date? Have they ever pretended to know the way to impress you? Answer “I have” or “I never have” and find out what you never told each other.
- 1Pick a deck and type both names.
- 2Player 1 answers “I have” or “I never have” to every statement, then hands the phone over.
- 3Player 2 answers the same statements. At the end you see both answers to every confession.
All 94 questions
Memory Lane
Romantic Firsts & Memories
- Never have I ever pretended to like a gift from my partner to spare their feelings
- Never have I ever rehearsed saying 'I love you' before actually saying it
- Never have I ever looked through my partner's phone without them knowing
- Never have I ever written a love letter and never sent it
- Never have I ever canceled plans with friends to spend time with my partner instead
- Never have I ever lied about how we met when telling the story to others
- Never have I ever cried during a romantic movie and pretended I didn't
- Never have I ever created a fake excuse to see my partner sooner
- Never have I ever saved a screenshot of our early text conversations
- Never have I ever driven past my partner's house hoping to 'accidentally' bump into them
- Never have I ever gotten relationship advice from a stranger online
- Never have I ever practiced a proposal or big relationship speech in the mirror
Travel Fails
Travel Mishaps
- Never have I ever missed a flight because I was too relaxed at the airport
- Never have I ever gotten lost in a foreign country and loved every minute of it
- Never have I ever pretended to know where I was going to impress my partner
- Never have I ever forgotten to pack something essential and had to buy it abroad at triple the price
- Never have I ever had a flight delayed so long it ruined a full day of plans
- Never have I ever accidentally booked the wrong dates for a hotel
- Never have I ever eaten something abroad that made me sick for the rest of the trip
- Never have I ever gotten into an argument with my partner over directions
- Never have I ever shown up to the wrong terminal or gate
- Never have I ever left something important in a hotel room and realized way too late
- Never have I ever tried to communicate in another language and said something completely wrong
- Never have I ever panicked about losing my passport while traveling
Guilty Pleasures
Daily Habits & Guilty Pleasures
- Never have I ever used my partner's products and pretended I didn't
- Never have I ever eaten cereal for dinner and called it self-care
- Never have I ever set my alarm 30 minutes early just to scroll my phone in bed
- Never have I ever skipped the gym and told my partner I went
- Never have I ever rewatched a comfort show for the fifth time instead of trying something new
- Never have I ever stayed up way too late doing absolutely nothing productive
- Never have I ever ordered food delivery when there was perfectly good food in the fridge
- Never have I ever worn the same outfit twice in a row and hoped nobody noticed
- Never have I ever had a full conversation with my pet like they were a person
- Never have I ever pretended to be productive while actually online shopping
- Never have I ever taken a quick nap that turned into three hours
- Never have I ever watched an entire season of a show in one sitting and felt no regret
Early Days
How We Started
- Never have I ever googled you before our first date
- Never have I ever planned an outfit to 'casually' run into you
- Never have I ever told my best friend about you before our second date
- Never have I ever rewritten a text to you for more than ten minutes
- Never have I ever pretended to love a movie because you loved it
- Never have I ever played hard to get on purpose
- Never have I ever saved a voice message from you to replay later
- Never have I ever lied about how many people I'd dated before you
- Never have I ever almost ended things in the first month
- Never have I ever wondered if I was more into this than you were
Little White Lies
Secret Habits in a Relationship
- Never have I ever secretly tested my partner to see how they'd react
- Never have I ever pretended to be asleep to avoid a late-night conversation
- Never have I ever memorized my partner's daily routine without them realizing
- Never have I ever compared my relationship to a couple on social media
- Never have I ever kept a secret wishlist of things I want my partner to do for me
- Never have I ever stalked my partner's ex on social media
- Never have I ever changed my appearance based on something my partner casually mentioned
- Never have I ever pretended to like my partner's cooking when I really didn't
- Never have I ever secretly planned a future with someone before making it official
- Never have I ever used a pet name I actually found embarrassing
- Never have I ever faked enthusiasm about meeting my partner's friends
- Never have I ever kept a tally of who apologized last in an argument
Roommate Confessions
Living Together Confessions
- Never have I ever pretended not to hear my partner ask me to do a chore
- Never have I ever rearranged something my partner organized because I didn't like how they did it
- Never have I ever used my partner's toothbrush and never told them
- Never have I ever claimed a side of the bed and refused to negotiate
- Never have I ever accidentally thrown away something of my partner's that I didn't like
- Never have I ever blamed a mess on the pet when it was actually me
- Never have I ever turned down the thermostat and pretended I didn't touch it
- Never have I ever hidden snacks from my partner in the house
- Never have I ever passive-aggressively cleaned to send a message
- Never have I ever left the dishes to soak and forgotten about them for days
- Never have I ever been annoyed by my partner's sleep habits but said nothing
- Never have I ever had a strong opinion about how to load the dishwasher
Kitchen Nightmares
Kitchen Disasters & Confessions
- Never have I ever set off the smoke alarm while cooking
- Never have I ever pretended a store-bought dish was homemade
- Never have I ever eaten my partner's leftovers
- Never have I ever Googled how to boil an egg
- Never have I ever ruined a meal and ordered delivery to cover it up
- Never have I ever tasted something I was cooking and put the spoon right back in
- Never have I ever eaten raw cookie dough despite knowing I shouldn't
- Never have I ever burned toast and still eaten it rather than starting over
- Never have I ever secretly added more seasoning to something my partner cooked
- Never have I ever lied about liking a new recipe my partner tried
- Never have I ever accidentally used salt instead of sugar or vice versa
- Never have I ever forgotten about food in the oven until the timer was long past
Trip Confessions
Travel Secrets & Confessions
- Never have I ever secretly wished we'd booked a different destination
- Never have I ever pretended to enjoy an activity on a trip just to make my partner happy
- Never have I ever taken a solo detour during a couples' trip because I needed alone time
- Never have I ever judged my partner's packing skills but said nothing
- Never have I ever lied about how much a trip souvenir cost
- Never have I ever booked a trip impulsively and dealt with the consequences later
- Never have I ever gotten emotional at a beautiful destination and tried to hide it
- Never have I ever planned an entire trip in my head that we'll probably never take
- Never have I ever fallen asleep during a supposedly unmissable sightseeing moment
- Never have I ever compared our trips to what I see other couples posting
- Never have I ever felt homesick on a trip but didn't want to ruin the mood
- Never have I ever mentally rated a trip and kept the score to myself
Confessions without the drinking game
Never have I ever usually belongs to parties. Played by two people who know each other well, it turns into something better: a safe way to admit small things, like rehearsing “I love you” or eating cereal for dinner and calling it self-care.
The questions here are about your relationship and your habits, not about outdoing each other. Nothing on this page is explicit.
Which deck to start with
Early Days is about how you got together, from first-date research to telling your best friend. Memory Lane covers romantic firsts and the little lies that kept the peace, and Little White Lies goes further into small secrets, like pretending to be asleep to skip a late-night talk. Travel Fails and Trip Confessions collect missed flights, wrong turns and the trips one of you secretly didn’t enjoy. Guilty Pleasures, Roommate Confessions and Kitchen Nightmares are about everyday habits: chores you pretend not to hear, store-bought dishes passed off as homemade and leftovers that went missing.
Play the full version in Floom
This page holds 8 decks. The Floom app has 300+ quizzes in six formats: This or That, Would You Rather, Never Have I Ever, Who’s Most Likely, Is It Cheating and Red Flag or Green Flag. You each answer on your own iPhone, the results open together, and you get stats after every round. You can also write your own quizzes and answer a new daily question together.
Questions
Are these never have I ever questions clean?
Yes. The decks on this page are about memories, travel, living together and everyday habits. Floom keeps its 18+ questions in a separate category that you can hide in the app.
What if we both answer “I have”?
Then you have a story to compare. The results show both answers to every statement, so you can go back to the ones that surprised you.
Is this game free?
Yes. Everything on this page is free and needs no sign-up. The Floom app is free to download too, and Floom Pro unlocks the full library of 300+ quizzes.