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This or That Questions for Couples

Fast choices with no wrong answers: sunset picnic or sunrise hike, deep talk or small talk, road trip or flight. Answer one after the other and see how many picks you share.

  1. 1Pick a deck and type both names.
  2. 2Player 1 answers every question, then hands the phone over.
  3. 3Player 2 answers the same questions. Your answers appear side by side at the end.
Pick a deck

One phone, two players. You both answer the same questions, then see where you match.

All 96 questions

Date Night Picks

Quality Time & Romance

  1. Sunset picnic / Sunrise hike
  2. Couple's massage / Couple's cooking class
  3. Stay in and cuddle / Go out dancing
  4. Weekend getaway / Staycation
  5. Movie marathon / Board game night
  6. Matching outfits / Complementary styles
  7. Anniversary dinner / Anniversary adventure
  8. Flowers just because / Planned surprise gift
  9. Slow dance in the kitchen / Karaoke duet
  10. Breakfast in bed / Candlelit dinner
  11. Handwritten note in their bag / Surprise lunch delivery
  12. Stargazing / Binge-watching a new show

Love Language 101

Communication Styles

  1. Apologize first / Wait for them
  2. Deep talk / Small talk
  3. Text good morning / Call good morning
  4. Talk it out now / Sleep on it first
  5. Voice note / Text
  6. Love letter / Surprise visit
  7. Say 'I love you' daily / Show it through actions
  8. Honest opinion / White lie to spare feelings
  9. Share passwords / Keep them private
  10. Plan the date / Be surprised
  11. Talk about problems right away / Cool down first
  12. Public love declaration / Private whisper

Travel Vibes

Travel Style

  1. Backpacking / Luxury resort
  2. Road trip / Flying
  3. Tourist spots / Hidden gems
  4. Travel alone then meet up / Travel together the whole time
  5. Carry-on only / Full suitcase
  6. Hostel / Airbnb
  7. Street food adventures / Fine dining reservations
  8. Guided tour / Self-guided tour
  9. Countryside Escape / Beach Resort
  10. Taxi / Subway
  11. Local Market / Shopping Mall
  12. Theme Park / Water Park

Home Sweet Home

Home & Living

  1. Minimalist home / Cozy maximalist home
  2. City apartment / Suburban house
  3. Closed Kitchen / Kitchen-Living Combo
  4. Home Office / Work from Bedroom
  5. Rooftop Terrace / Private Balcony
  6. Designer Bathroom / Clean & Simple Bathroom
  7. Walk-in Closet / Built-in Wardrobe
  8. Modern Villa / Cozy Cabin
  9. Industrial Style / Boho Style
  10. Dark & Cozy Bedroom / Bright & Airy Bedroom
  11. Backyard Pool / Home Gym
  12. Tropical Plants / Dried Botanicals

Kitchen Rules

Kitchen Habits

  1. Shop in Store / Order In
  2. Supermarket / Farmers Market
  3. Homemade Meal / Meal Prep Containers
  4. Gas Stove / Electric Stove
  5. Dishwasher / Hand Wash
  6. Cook Together / Cook Alone
  7. Perfectly Organized / Total Chaos
  8. Manual Brew / Machine Brew
  9. Clean Kitchen / Messy Kitchen
  10. Cook from Scratch / Follow a Recipe
  11. Organized Fridge / Stuffed Fridge
  12. Magnet Collector / Blank Fridge

Game On

Social & Competitive

  1. Board games / Video games
  2. Go-Kart Racing / VR Gaming
  3. Pool / Bowling
  4. Paintball / Laser Tag
  5. Chess / Poker
  6. Shooting Range / Darts
  7. UNO / Twister
  8. Badminton / Beach Volleyball
  9. Baseball / Basketball
  10. Split Fiction / It Takes Two
  11. Counter-Strike / The Sims
  12. Beer Pong / Jenga

Swipe or Save

Spending Habits

  1. Brand New Car / Used Car
  2. Rolex / Apple Watch
  3. Airbnb / Four Seasons Hotel
  4. Luxury Jewelry / Everyday Jewelry
  5. Designer Bag / Mall Brand Bag
  6. BMW / Toyota
  7. Crocs / Birkenstock
  8. Ray-Ban Sunglasses / Prada Sunglasses
  9. Cruise Ship / Kayaking
  10. Economy Class / Business Class
  11. Debit Card / Credit Card
  12. Latest phone / Phone that still works fine

Bucket List Moments

Travel Experiences

  1. Scuba diving / Skydiving
  2. Sake Tasting / Wine Cellar Tour
  3. Hot Air Balloon Ride / Helicopter Tour
  4. Live Football Match / Music Festival
  5. Ancient ruins / Modern architecture
  6. Glacier Hiking / Volcano Watching
  7. Train journey / Open Sea Cruise
  8. Rooftop Sunset / Ocean Sunset
  9. Zipline in the Jungle / Horseback Riding on the Beach
  10. Elephant Sanctuary / Monkeys in the Wild
  11. Snowboarding / Surfing
  12. Mountain Sunrise / Ocean Sunset

A warm-up that still tells you something

This or that is the lightest of the couple games. Each question takes a second, so a whole deck fits into a coffee break or the drive home. It still works as a check-in: if you picked “wait for them” while your partner picked “apologize first,” you’ve found something worth a longer talk.

Couples who have been together for years often expect a perfect score and don’t get one. Tastes change, and this is a low-stakes way to notice it.

Which deck to start with

Date Night Picks helps you plan your next night out, and Game On covers game nights and how competitive you both get. Love Language 101 is about how you each like to talk, text and make up. Travel Vibes settles the backpacking versus resort question before you book anything, and Bucket List Moments is about the experiences you’d travel for. Home Sweet Home and Kitchen Rules cover the place you want to live in and how you shop and cook. Swipe or Save is a quick look at how each of you likes to spend.

Play the full version in Floom

This page holds 8 decks. The Floom app has 300+ quizzes in six formats: This or That, Would You Rather, Never Have I Ever, Who’s Most Likely, Is It Cheating and Red Flag or Green Flag. You each answer on your own iPhone, the results open together, and you get stats after every round. You can also write your own quizzes and answer a new daily question together.

Questions

How do you play this or that as a couple?

Each of you picks one option for every pair without explaining. Then you compare. The matches are fun, and the mismatches are where the conversation is.

How many questions should we play?

One deck of 12 takes about two minutes per person. Play one deck as a warm-up or several for a full evening.

Is this game free?

Yes. Everything on this page is free and needs no sign-up. The Floom app is free to download too, and Floom Pro unlocks the full library of 300+ quizzes.

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